Sunday, February 8, 2015

You Just Don’t Know


Back in the 1930’s the WPA sponsored the Federal Writer’s Project.  Over 2,200 former slaves were interviewed for posterity’s sake about what life under slavery had been like.  Lynette Tanner showcases 42 of these interviews in her book, Chained To The Land.

This is hard reading.  Many times I’ve had to set the book down because I could not emotionally process the stories it held.  These are first person accounts of perseverance, pride, and even triumph, but with the background of abuse, loss, and hardships.

What chills the bones is the matter of fact way these survivors tell their stories.  Human beings, yes, you and I get used to the way things are.  At some level, we accept things as normal that should not be normal.  In this case, the storytellers had an even greater challenge.  They had to transition to a different normal, sometimes a different kind of bondage, after the war.    

It makes me wonder what story is behind each of our residents.  Part of the enjoyment I get from working with seniors is the fact that they each do have a story, one with lots of chapters.  They are books that just haven’t been written.  We collect some notes we call their “activity history” and put it in their file.  But we will never know the whole story.  ‘So and so’ never learned to write.  His neighbor was famous in his field.  This one over here has family who avoid her.  That one over there never married.  Some have led charmed lives, others struggled with each step.  Maybe the one who now curses his caregivers used to be soft-spoken and the former athlete just sits and watches.  Most of these folks have suffered many, many losses.  Yet, they still survived.  You just don’t know.

©Donna Stuart, ADPC        February 7, 2015

Tanner, Lynette Ater, ed. Chained To The Land. Winston-Salem: John F. Blair, Publisher, 2014.